Tips to build a happy relationship...

I came across an article entitled "To Love and to Cherish" in StarSpecial this afternoon and i think it's very useful. So i'd like to post it here.

Tips to build a happy relationship:

1. Be willing to change.

2. Be honest to your partner.

3. Avoid competition between the two of you.

4. Both must complement each other.

5. Avoid being possessive and selfish.

6. Be kind, gentle, patient and loving.

7. Keep romance alive in your relationship.

8. Say sorry if you have made a mistake. (Removing your ego!!!)

9. Be supportive in whatever he or she does.

10. Have integrity and this will gain honour.

11. Be a good listener, pay attention and be open.

12. Give surprises as it adds tonic to the romance.

13. Cracking jokes helps to build cheerful relationship.

14. Never bring past problems and unpleasant incidents.

15. Develop compassion for your partner and yourself.

16. Know the likes and dislikes to shape the relationship.

17. Exercise sweetness of speech and never use harsh words.

18. Treat your partner the way you would like to be treated.

19. Leave little notes for him or her when you miss each other.

20. Express appreciation by saying thank you even for everyday things.

21. Practise forgiveness as sometimes mistakes are made unintentionally.

~Personally, i strongly agree with what the writer says here... How about you???

~ SuRpRiSe~

i had fun in theatre performance class yesterday. after class ended at 5pm, HE picked me up at my faculty and we went to Jusco in One Utama. i asked him why he need to go Jusco. He told me that he had to help his mum buy some groceries. i wondered why he wanted to buy here instead of his hometown at first but i did not ask him. We shopped in Jusco and tried to look for the stuffs which he wanted but we failed to find any there. We went to Tesco after he asked his friend where he bought the stuffs.

We had dinner in Ikea before we went to shop for the groceries. (The food there is okay. ) both of us finished our meal within half an hour as we were very hungry that time...haha... Then, we went into Padini Concept Store. i could not resist looking at heels and sunglasses. eventually, i brought a pair of heels and sunglasses home... *am i a shopaholic???

~ Our mission began: we started to shop for groceries. in fact, i did not really shop as i did not what his mum wanted him to buy. So i just walked together with him and looked at what he was buying. i realised there was something wrong as all the stuffs that he put in the trolley seem like something that i prefer to eat. Finally, he admitted that all the things were actually for me and not for his mum......He told me his main purpose to travelled from Seremban yesterday was to buy me all these because he worried that i do not have proper meal at PJ home...... For me, this surprise is touching. ~

In short , HE is very caring. He always cares about me and sometimes he even ignore himself!!!
THANKS. THANKS FOR EVERYTHING. I appreciate what you have done for me!!!

there's always rainbow after thunderstorm

Friends, trust me, everything will be fine. just look at my blog - optimistic and happy (^_^)

There's always rainbow after thunderstorm....

get close to your friends; get even closer to your enemies

Angela said "Get close to your friends; get even closer to your enemies" in Kepimpinan Diri dan Organisasi class this morning and i personally quite agree with this statement. it's impossible to have no enemy in this world because we all live in a competitive world. It's just depends on how u look at the competition and enemy. If u take challenge and enemy positively, they may be a source of motivation which make you to go further.

In fact, Prof. Quek always says that enemies are those who can really help us to improve oursleves because they dare to criticise on us and i agree with her. Remember, knowing ourselves is not enough, being and doing must come after knowing.
* Enemies help us to know ourselves better...haha (^_^)

KLCC aquarium and Maggie mee party....

Davy and i went to KLCC to visit the aquarium yesterday and we had great time there. he asked me to touch the small DNA shark. he demonstrated to me as i told him i was scared. he held my hand and touched the shark together. however, the other shark was swimming towards my hand and its tail coincident touched my hand. i was shocked and i screamed...eventually, my pants are wet!!! haih, i'm so timid...

after that, we walked around KLCC until 7++pm. we did not want to have dinner in KLCC as we already had our lunch there. guess what, we finally decided to cook maggie mee at home. he asked me to call my housemates to see whether they had their dinner. we then went to buy sausagee,carrots, eggs and chicken soup maggie mee. the chicken soup maggie mee was purposely bought for one of my roommate as she cannot take spicy food while all the instant noodles which i have are spicy. after that, we went back home and my roommate told me that she had dinner already and she was just joking that she wanted to join the maggie mee party. aftr get everything prepared, i went to take bath. he cooked for me at home while i took my bath. he was so caring that he cooked something extra for my roommate as he realised that she did not eat much for her dinner. of course he just cooked a small portion for her as he worried that she would be too full if he cooked too much for her...although the maggie mee is just sth common, he is willing to cook for me and this is what makes me feel touched...THANKS

i feel that i'm very LUCKY

Last Friday, i went to Cineleisure with my coursemates and HIM. we went there without any other purpose but to watch "Australia" and "Bedtime stories" as we separated ourselves into two groups. 6 of us watched "Australia" and the other 3 watched "Bedtime Stories". i watched both movies and i like both. nevertheless, the main focus of this post is not on the movies.

the highlight of this post is HIM. many of my friends were shocked when they knew that Davy would join us for the movie. they were surprised because they wondered how a working person like him can join us last Friday afternoon. the reason is he rushed himself to finish all his works before Friday and drove from Seremban to join us. this would be easily accepted if only both of us watched the movie but it was hard to believe that he was willing to do that while my friends were with us even though he met my friends before. after the movie, we walked around The Curve. then, all of us had dinner together. he did not mind to have dinner with my friends and he was trying his best to participate in our conversation. fortunately, he is sociable and he could mix well with my friends. or else, i would feel guilty for making him bored. not many guys are willing to spend time with his girlfriend's friends in this world especially when the guys have to make sacrifice for that. i'm very lucky that he is willing to do so!!!

Assignments-Thanks, all my group members!!!

every semester usually begins with happiness. everyone of us is happy to see each other after few months of holiday. this semester is not excluded. we hugged each other and we had countdown party together. we all are trying to enjoy our last semester in UM as undergraduates...yeah!!!

however, we have to face reality that a lot of assignments and presentations are waiting for us. not to mention how many assignments and presentations we have. luckily, most of them are group works and i have good members in my group. they are responsible, hardworking, dedicated to assignments and presentations...last but not least, they know how to make our work easier by having jokes in between...thanks, my lovely group members (^_^)

Highway?!!!

do u think u can understand a person within a month? i would say "100% NO" if u propose this question to me last time. however, i will say "YES" if u ask me now. this is because my instinct helps me to know and understand HIM a lot even though just after three weeks i knew him. u may think that i'm telling lie but this is the truth. this may on the grounds that both of us are similar to each other in some ways...due to the similarities which we have, highway exists between us and we can understand each other quite well within a short period of time...

unexpected things happened...haha!!!

i worked during the holidays as i wanted to earn some money and gain new experience. everything was under my control until HE appeared. the first impression that he gave me was that he is unfriendly since he likes to tease people. he teased me on the first day he met me. i never met this kind of people before. all those who tease me are only those who are very closed to me because teasing is actually quite funny. i dun mind of being teased but not the first tim we met!!! therefore, i thought that he is impolite.

however, i changed my opinion when i saw how polite and serious he is when he served customers. the way he talked to customers and worked impressed me. i found out that he is quite similar to me as both of us are very serious when we need to be serious and we can be crazy than any others when it's time for us to relax and have fun.

he is very talkactive. in favt, he is the most talkactive guy i ever met. hence, both of us can talk or sms each other from the early morning until night even though we just knew for three days. it's very comfortable to chat with him as i can talk about anything and i can be myself. people who are around me asked me whether i'm tired of talking so much and my answer is i'm NOT tired at all...in my opinion, it's hard to get someone whom u find comfortable to talk to...i appreciate that he appears in my life!!!

furthermore, he is vry observant and caring. he knew that i scare of cats and dogs despite that he only knew me for two days. he protected me by chasing away the cats and dogs. in addition, he remembers whatever i say such as what i like and what i dislike. for instance, i like to eat chicken breast and dislike chicken drumstick. he will accompany me to eat chicken breast even though he likes drumstick the most...u may think that this is just a small matter but i feel very touched already...